Let me preface this by proudly stating—I AM NOT SINGLE. But since I am black and female, my relationship status has nothing to do with this post. It seems like every other week some news station, blog, or newspaper is discussing issues concerning black women. "Black women are lonely. They will never find suitable black men because they are all in jail or dumb as all hell. Black women, sorry to tell you, but unless you choose white, your life ain't never gonna be right." What the hell?
Media people, I am not going to say this too many more times- STOP TELLING BLACK WOMEN TO DATE OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE. I guarantee that you are not telling all those single, lonely can't-find-a-man-to-save-their-lives white women to date outside of their race. Yeah, because that would just be an abomination before god, right? FYI you dumb asses who seem to think that all black men are dumb, in jail or with white women, there are a plethora of GOOD BLACK MEN out here for all these GOOD BLACK WOMEN that are in search of a mate. So shut the hell up.
First of all, by telling us to date outside of our race, you are (yet again) emasculating, humiliating, and insulting our black men. It seems like no one else is going to defend our men so I guess I will do it. I will fight to the death for my people including my black men. I am not going to let you all continue to screw them over like they ain't sh**. This ain't 1810 and we are not slaves. Black men earned and deserve respect and you are going to give it to them or else.
Why the hell do you think that so many black men are in jail or not as educated as black women and other nationalities in this country? It is because of sh** like this, direct shots at black men to the point where they can't succeed because you won't let them. I am afraid that we have almost come to a point of no return in the black community, where black men may not even be able to rebound from all of the sh** that they have had to endure. Black on black crime is outrageously high. But guess who taught us to kill each other. All them white men that you are convincing our women to go date/marry. Give me a break.
I know the real reasons behind this whole push for black women to date white men and I am going to say it, right here, right now. (I ain't scared of none of yall mutha-f******. Come get me….)
First of, if more black women get with more white men and subsequently marry them and have children, guess what? There will be a lot of mixed babies in existence and a whole lot less black babies. Are you trying to kill off our race? Think about this-- if a black woman and a white man has a daughter, she will be mixed. If their daughter grows up with this notion that black men are the scum of the earth, she will most likely seek a white man as a husband. Then, if they have child, by all intentional purposes, their child will be/look white. Then guess what has happened? You just wiped out blackness in two generations. (It's as easy as that).
For anyone who doesn't know, the so-called white race, which used to be the large majority of the United States, is shrinking. Yes, the so-called white race will likely be the MINORITY in just a very short time. So I guess advising black women to date/marry white men works in their benefit, huh?....And it don't stop here.
Black people were the first people on this planet. We were first and all of you others came from US. I am not trying to create some sort of inferiority/superiority complex; I am just telling you PROVEN TRUTH (do some research. Lucy was real….and she was really in Africa….). Now, as the original seed of this planet, we are endowed with genes that are stronger (yeah I said it) and more compatible with the natural planetary changes that happen on Earth. If you haven't already peeped it, this earth is going through some crazy changes (think: earthquake in Haiti, all this freaking snow on the North East). Not to mention, the earth is moving closer to the sun…who the hell else you know that can sustain healthy life under the sun but black melanin-strong people? You get the picture? It's all about survival of the fittest and, in this situation, melanin recessive people are not the fittest.
And finally (and most controversial), black women are the true gods of this earth. How about we gave birth to EVERYONE IN EXISTANCE? How about they say black people were the first on the planet but in reality, it was BLACK WOMEN who were the very first beings on this earth. Do some research on chromosomes. Women's chromosomes have a significantly higher amount of genetic material meaning everything with the lesser came from the female. We evolved into what we are now and we continue to evolve (I could care less about all you religious people who think we came from this god-created Adam and Eve ish--- sorry but I am mad right now). Our evolution and existence started with the black woman. Mother of creation. Get it right. By all means, don't believe me, do your research, you may be surprised at what you find.
As the first on this planet earth, we are stronger beings than anyone else on Earth. That would explain how we are able to endure things such as, racism, sexism, slavery, feeding our children with only 2 pennies to rub together and a piece of moldy bread, limited housing, limited transportation, no resources, etc, etc. We even have dealt with our downtrodden black men. We pick them up when they fall. We help them when they cannot help themselves. We fight for them when muthf****** like those who decided to publish this Washington Post bull try to beat them down. We can't stop in our fight for our men…ourselves…and our communities.
And in addition, as stated earlier, I am not single. I have a man and we are happy. But guess what, I am a college graduate holding 2 Bachelor degrees and my man has none. He never went to college. But I can tell you this, he is one of the most intelligent men that I know. Go talk to some of those non-college graduate black men out there that you seem to think are less because they do not have degrees like their female counterparts. They are way smarter than you think. So stop using the lack of a college degree as your basis for judging intelligence. I know a hell of a lot of non-college grads (black men in particular) that are smarter than people with graduate degrees. Think about that.
By the way, in that Washington Post article, this lady Lisa Vazquez said something about black women being more concerned about racial loyalty over self preservation. HELLO!!!! Racial loyalty is a part of self preservation. WTH? I am the crazy one?!!?
Please don't' think that I am against interracial dating. I have no problem with some dating outside of their race. If you fall in love, you fall in love. But I cannot sit around while all of these media folks push black women further and further away from black men. They need us so badly. And we need them. Never do I hear of white women being told to go after black men instead of white. I am sick of all of this.
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Hallelujah!! (sidebar, I am one of those religious people that think Adam and Eve but with a science twist that actually follows evolution, put that's a separate post). I am fed up as well with the entire single black women discussion. My fiance and I just watched a documentary titled "SoulMates" (we actually cut it off half-way through because it was pissing us off) about the plight of single, educated Black females. What became startlingly clear was these women were single not because of their too high education, the lack of educated brothers (which is b.s., I know a lot of black men out there as well who have more knowledge than a PHD)but because they had a mega-list of ridiculous standards that NO ONE could live up to, not even the ladies themselves.
You are exactly right, articles from the Washington Post and THE NY Times are just a systematic approach to black extermination. They are just becoming more obvious in their approach (enlightened blacks can see right through it!) because they are desperate to preserve their own shrinking race. They have always feared us because of our indelible strength. We did not break when they colonized Africa, initiated slave trading, forced us to assimilate, denied us education and beat us to death. We did not break when they enforced Jim Crow laws, when they destroyed Black Reconstruction, brainwashed us through mental conditioning so we hate ourselves, put crack in our communities, encouraged the psychological break-down of our families, and more. And With Sisters like you spreading the message as well as others standing up for the truth, we will NEVER break.
HIP HIP HOORAY!!!!!!!!!
Now let me address my Brown Brothers. Did you all hear that sister come to our defense. Now it is time we come to our own defense. Not with words with action. I got to go do some work but I will be back so we can talk some more. I got some very important things to share.
Wow. Insightful. Um, to add what you said about research there was a science lab full of White male scientist who stated after the discovery of Lucy that the DNA of her Skeletal remains closely resembled the DNA of black women. What does that mean? Well, the mitochondrial DNA of black women has traits that are found in all people which was conclusive after doing a test of many different races, ethnicity's, and both sex's and let to black women containing the largest amount of variation; therefore making them like gods (lower case g). Well done Shah.
"Single black women with college degrees outnumber single black men with college degrees almost 3 to 1 in major urban areas. . . Given those numbers, any economist would advise them to start looking elsewhere"-- What does an economist have to do with a Black woman's relationship?
There are many other places I would like to quote, but that one took the cake. Anyway just because a man is black in skin colour does not atone for all black men. Do you know why? Black men as well as white men, pink men, bronze men, etcetera coming in many different ethnicity's and from many different sub cultures. So, is it the man to be blame, based on colour, or the culture from which they come? In America, for a lot of black men who identify themselves or are identified as Black/African-American/ Negro the problem is the culture, but there are those who have been able to rise up and surpass the stigmas, stereotypes, and break away from self-fulfilling prophecies to only be overshadowed by the racist structure views of them. What I've recently discovered that is interesting is that Blacks/ African-Americans/ Negros are roughly 11% of the population yet 5.7% of the 11% are unaccounted for. . . conspiracy? Coincidence? Or racism? Whereas 1% of whites are unaccounted for.
@ 3EVE- Yes, I agree 100% (check the post after this one) You are so right. Many educated black women have standards that way too high and extremely influenced by white america. It doesn't make sense to even think that black men overall are going to fit standards for white america because they are not white. I think black women might be going about this the wrong way...and i also think that black men need to step up to the plate so that their women can stop being the topic of conversation...but anyway...
@Olvan- yes I stood up for yall. It seems like no one else will (you all won't even do it for yourselves) I am really irritated that we as a community are even letting this be the topic of conversation. And yes, you all need to come to your own defense and ours- this is as much an attack on us as it is on you all. Shame Shame...
@ Prentyce-See there, we are the mothers of the earth. Thank you for that tidbit of info
@Huey- Yes, that whole thing about telling us what economists think is ridiculous. They dont know jack about black relationships...so dumb. Now, as for you next point, I think it has everything to do with culture. If there is a white man who acts "black" he would probably be considered a black man in this situation and black women would be advised to stay away from him. And for your final point- Its a conspiracy, everything is a conspiracy :)
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